20 questions. One honest read of how much love your nervous system can actually hold.
You can explain exactly why you pull away. And you still pull away.
For the woman who can name her relational cycles cold — and for the one a breakup, a divorce, or a loss just dropped into the deep end. Either way, you’re still in it.
Maybe talk therapy gave you the language, and you can name the pattern, trace it back, see it coming a mile away — and still watch yourself do it in the moment that matters most. Or maybe something just came apart and the feeling is louder than any explanation for it. Either way, what runs the moment lives one layer down from understanding — in the part of you that decides, faster than thought, how much closeness feels safe. This quiz reads that layer. Not your compatibility. Your capacity.
Answer with what’s true — not what sounds evolved.
Let your body respond before your brain edits.
There are no wrong results — only honest ones.
Takes about 3 minutes.
Created by Kristen Mackoul, inspired by the work of Steven James Dixon
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